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RP Comfort Meme

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RP Comfort Meme

** Note: Some of these may seem to differ from how I used to RP before, but these are my current comfort levels!! Please don't compare thanks : )

A valuable meme for any role-player!
Come display your comfort levels so your role-play partners are aware of what they can do, and of what they should avoid! A healthy relationship between role-play partners is the key to a good time!
While this meme shows the basics, please remember to communicate with your role-play partners!

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RP Basics



RP Methods
I am comfortable doing:
- Comment: 
Chats: I might be a little awkward at first, but once I'm comfortable in the chats it's pretty okay- Though I might get overwhelmed if there's too much going on at once- @ 7 @ ;;
- Notes: .......... there's too much junk in my notes, so I'd rather not... my note RPs tend to get lost...
- Forum: 
- Skype: ... my skype's... quite dead /LAUGH
- Google Docs: HAHAHA I will... forget to check if not notified so... ;;
Other: LINE (preferred) / Twitter (for short rps or HCs/discussions)


OOC/Headcanoning/RP Planning Methods
- Skype:
- Google Docs: 
- Discord: do not has dis-
Twitter / LINE: I check these more often-


Participants
I am comfortable with:
One on one role plays: (preferred)
Up to three people: 
★ Up to four people: 
★ Five or more people:
★  As big as possible: 


Generally I'm quite flexible (??) just as in chats, the more people in the RP, I might get a little overwhelmed / miss things-- 0/--/


RP Style 
I am all right with:
Lit/Para: for more elaborate points of the RP, when more details / descriptions are required or whenever things are building up
Script: easier and quick


Post Length
I usually write about:
One or two sentences: 
★ One or two paragraphs: 
★ Two to five paragraphs:
 
- More than five paragraphs: 
- A few pages worth: 

I am comfortable role-playing with people who write:
One or two sentences: 
★ One or two paragraphs: 
★ Two to five paragraphs: 

- More than five paragraphs: 
- A few pages worth: 

I'm more comfortable if the length of the exchanges are similar-ish (tho I'm good with any) but it also depends on my energy levels /if posts are too long though . . . i would feel stressed and intimidated to respond to those... 0/--/ unless it's like... just for me to read or something haha ;;


RP Speed 
I usually reply:
ASAP (within minutes) after my partner's post: usual speed and if partner replies fast and if i'm free
within an hour: if longer posts / if i need to think more / if i'm kinda pre-occupied
within the same day: if very pre-occupied
within the same week: any longer than this, it could be that the interest is kinda dying... ish?? unless i have an undying passion for a particular RP, then i can almost instantly pick it up again . . . (not frequent)
- within the same month: 
- longer than a month:
at random/variable times: depends on... time and energy and... the RP itself...

I expect my partner to reply: 
- ASAP (within minutes) after my partner's post: 
★ within an hour: 
★ within the same day: 
★ within the same week: 
- within the same month: 
- longer than a month: 
at random/variable times: 

Generally I don't mind people taking their time since I know people can be pre-occupied with their lives. I can pick up old RPs fairly OK. Though, my attention and interest for a RP is a lot stronger with quicker replies.


RP Reminders 
I am okay with getting reminders to reply to an RP:
★ when I've mentioned I got something going on irl: 
★ when there is a deadline for the RP submission: 
★ after 5 or 10 or 15 minutes:
★ after an hour: 
★ within the same day: 
★ the next day:
★ if I haven't replied in a full week:
★ if I haven't replied in more than one week or longer:


I tend to remind people to reply to an RP:
- when there is a deadline for the RP submission:
- after 5 or 10 or 15 minutes:
★ after an hour: unless they stated they were busy, then i would wait instead of poke
- within the same day:
★ the next day:
★ if you haven't replied in a full week: 
★ if you haven't replied in more than one week or longer:

I'm completely OK being reminded any time so feel free!!  i'm sorta timid / passive so if i feel that the person is pre-occupied, i would only bring up rp on a later time when they are free / perhaps not bring it up if i feel they don't seem interested (though, these may just be me acting on assumptions . . . /working on this bit )


Role-play Requests
I like getting requests from:
 Anyone and everyone at any time! - unless it's like really random strangers who asks for really weird things???
 When I ask for role-plays.
 From friends and acquaintances. YES PLS
- From friends only. 


Corrections 
I am comfortable getting corrections when:
I missed something in your/someone else's post: 
 I missed something about your/someone else's character: 
 It's realistic/factual: 
- Other:
- Never :

we're all learning and all, though depending on what the correction is, i may take time to wrap my head around it 0/-/ ;; (my understanding power is derp at times)


Expectations 
I expect my RP partner to:
- have read my character app before we RP: 
- read as much of my character app as is reasonable to go on before we RP: 
★ read more of my character app as it becomes relevant/necessary: 

I'm OK with both parties discovering and learning more as things go on~


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Romantic Relationships

** Important: Communication is the key to a real life relationship, it shouldn't be abandoned for a fictional on either! Be sure to talk to your partners when considering romance!


Shipping

I am comfortable shipping my characters:
- Never. 
- Our character know each other deeply.
★ Our character know each other deeply, and I know I can trust the role-player: (preferred)
★ Only if the role-player and I plan it: only with a select few (extremely rare tbh)
★ It depends on the character:

If you want to ship with my characters:
- Talk to me about it from the start: I feel pressured if this is done . . . (not preferred)
- Talk to me about it once our characters know each other: 
 Talk to me about it once they both have some feelings for each other: 
 Talk to me about it when they finally decide that want to go beyond hugging:

When I ship, it's usually really intensely. it may seem as if i ship easily but honestly, I'm quite picky with my ships since i tend to invest A LOT in them- 0/--/ for me it depends on character interactions, chemistry and dynamics and also on the character's mun. as said before, i'm a little passive and at times, a little dense to certain hints so if that is the case, please talk to me about it- just not at the start, otherwise i would feel as if i'm expected to ship and that's just pressuring for me ;;


Speed
When shipping my characters, I like the romance to happen:
- Swift as lightning! 
- Fast, but not super fast.
- Happens in about three months.
 Slow and steady wins the race.
★ Slugs know what's up!
★ My relationships know no speed. They happen if they happen: this seems to be the usual case


Smut
When my characters gets intimate, I prefer:
★ To skip the act entirely. I'm pretty sure not everyone is open to the idea of smut and have their own degree of acceptance and tolerance for it; i'm happy to accommodate
To write the build up, but skip the act.
- To write the act only if it is very special, but otherwise skip it.
★ To write the act all the way through.


Romantic Artwork
When it comes to artwork depicting our relationship please:
- Do not post it at all without talking to me.
 Post it if it is cuddles and hugs. depends if OCs have mutual romantic feelings / if harmless friendship-type hugs if not
 Post it if it is kisses. IC ships only
 Post it if it is much more. IC ships only. Kindly ask me first- 0/--/
- Do not post it at all if it depicts sexual acts!
- Do not post where I can see it, but draw what you like!


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Dramatics

** Important: Always be sure to communicate with your partner individually if you think you are about to go outside their comfort zones even just the slightest bit!!

Violence
When it comes to violent situations, I am comfortable with:
★ Verbal arguments are welcome: it's not my nature but if situation is necessary, i'm up for it
 Mild violence, such as sparring, slapping, light mutilation, accidental hitting/falling upon: JUST DO IT
 Strong violence, such as heavy mutilation, torture, anything life-threatening: kindly ask me first!!


If you are going to do something violent, please:
★ Talk to me about it first: YES PLS
- Surprise me!

i don't mind violence but it is better if the violence makes sense and is justifiable. my tolerance for it is... fairly high

Dramatic Artwork
- Do not post any dramatic scenes that that happened between our characters.
Talk to me about it before posting! 
 Post what you like!   


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Other 


Touching
I am okay with my characters being touched if:
- It's not romantic/sexual.
- It's not violent.
 It's something that usually happens (e.g.: shaking hands when you meet someone).
- You check with me first.
 It depends on the character: 

For me, it depends if the touching is a natural thing in the RP itself.
Not all my characters are okay with being touched (some of them even dislike any form of physical contact), so their responses will depend on their personality and relationship with the other character. 
** Ship partners: ALL OF THE ABOVE ARE OKAY :iconcoolplz:


General Artwork
I am fine with art being done of my characters:
★ if it's IC: 
 if you don't know me/barely know me: 
 if you are my friend: 
- if you ask me first:
- only if it's a finished/polished piece)


Triggers

:iconspacejunesplz:


Crack
When it comes to crack, I'm okay with:
 crack in general: 
- crack-shipping: 




Tag
 

SHALL COME UP WITH A LIST WHEN I'M LESS SLEEPYyyYyy y y.  . . ... maybe . . zz. . .    .      .     :iconlazyroseplz:

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Okay, technically I'm still sorting out my life right now since I have a ward case to present to my peers and superiors next week but---

PAMMMMMMMMMM--- :iconnashablushplz:

A bit late but I wanna try to go aaaaaaaaa * q * ) !!!

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Cheru out- /collapses from being overworked

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Santas-Harem scam PLEASE SPREAD THIS AROUND

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Because this injustice cannot be tolerated, especially in communities who actually love to have fun and actually want to share the joy of celebration among artists.

Frankly, I've been in secret santas several times and :iconsantas-harem: was actually one of those that I had wanted to participate in. Now, I'm just grateful that I didn't. To those of you who are ever planning to host secret santas, take this as an example of what not to do. Seriously gosh I am rather pissed at how disgusting this is!!

Cheru out!!!
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Woops- Time flies so fast! I can't believe it has been a month since my last journal :'DD

TL;DR: Updates on my life in general- Since people have been asking me where I MIA to--

Just forgive me for the lack of activity- Work in the hospital has been keeping me away from anything art/rp related. Like, each time I get home, I still have research proposals, presentations to work on and oh my those are really big mood killers for me. Tbh I haven't been drawing in a long long while. You could say that I am kinda artblocked :iconlazepoolplz: I haven't even had the mood or the braincells to properly write the written part for my latest app submission and oh gosh don't get me started on replying comments.

I just want to say thank you for the comments, for everything in general and for the lovely birthday wishes I have gotten Q // w // Q gosh I feel so bad since I haven't replied to any of them but really you all have my heartfelt thanks. I guess, what I am trying to say is the year ahead is going to be one of my most toughest yet! I am still trying to get used to the environment in the hospital since I am working in one of the busiest hospitals in my country. Like, to the point where even taking a 5 minute breather from patients is actually a real blessing! It's pretty intense ; w ; And, I'm still a provisional pharmacist so I have to fill in like 9 logbooks (with really crazy requirement levels), get one group research done, and have several presentations done. Aiya let's just say I am gonna be pretty inactive and dead here till my provisional period is over. 

Still, I do hope you would look forward to the art that I pray I can do and put here. Most of what I have been doing has been doodles and that itself is rather scarce. Ah, well, anyway, hope all of you are doing well!! Just please don't take my lack of replies as something personal okay? I am just pretty extracted from dA atm :iconnashableedplz:

I haven't even done a journal for my CF mini recap but in general, I met darkn2ght, gigabunny, asahirureiko, and Edenized. Thank you for making my time in CF so fun btw Q //v// Q gahhhhh hope I can attend more so we can meet again!! :iconloveloveplz:

Yosh!!

Take care everyone, that's it from me!
~Cheru out!! :iconmueheplz:
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